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Tuesday, September 25, 2007

positive mind

if someone ask me 'how are you?' its very easy to answer 'i am fine' or 'very well' or 'just fine' or something that shows a positive approach. its not like that i always answer that way... but if there is no problem with that, i just do it. i think if i am having a boring job or are in a hurry or having some pressure or in a mental stress and then someone ask me 'how are you' and i answer 'not well', 'very bad', 'no...' etc; that doesn't help me to reduce the pain. moreover there is a provability of increasing my pain.



i think 'how are you' actually not a question... its like a greet and and the way we response it, shows the personality. you'll find some people who always pretend to be unwell. you'll see them laughing, talking... but ask them 'how are you'... they'll rise their nose, make their face sorrowful, stare their eyes to an unseen painful memories and then say 'i am not enough well, that made my life hell... blah... blah... blah...'. i think when we have this question before us... we should take some time, think: is there any problem with me right now? if not, just say with a smile that you are well. try it, i promise it'll certainly make you feel better... even if its not for a long time but at least for several moments.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

It's true and we should always be positive. There are ups and downs, sorrows and joys, inspirations and frustrations in life. All those parts of a life but we always try to be positive. It influences on our thinking, activities and attitude and help us to overcome all the obstacle of life. There is a proverb "become angry and you will be loser ".

Unknown said...

this also remind me of something that the answer of "how do you do?" is itself "how do you do?"...... this is also a greeting, but we mistake while answered fine or well.... nice post again